Thursday, 2 July 2009

More sad news, my heart is breaking!!

Thank you all so much for your comforting words you all took time to leave for me, I read every single one and cant believe how many nice people out there that I have never met care so much.
I have more sad sad news to share and I haven't the words to describe my grief at this very moment. My very close Aunt died yesterday evening of terminal cancer, she was only diagnosed 5 weeks ago and is now gone, she lived in the west coast of Ireland and I got to speak to her over the phone as her daughter held the phone to her ear to tell her I loved her, this was just the night before, and my mum was with her when she passed away in her own home in a hospital bed. I travel on saturday to her funeral and she was a very popular lady and well loved.
I also encouraged her to take up card making and rubber stamping, so the two of us over the last 8 years spent time going around the craft shops and getting so excited at any new rubber stamps we would have bought.
In 10 months I have lost my grandfather, my father and now my dear aunt, I loved these people so much.
Take care xx

33 comments:

Mandy - Crafty Angel said...

oh marlou, i just dont know what to say, there are no words that can offer what I want to say to you. I cant comprend what you are going through, but hope that knowing other people are thinking of you is of some help and comfort to you. i do truly hope you are doing ok and send you all my love and prayers, hugs mandyxx

Rose Ann said...

Oh Marlou...my heart is breaking for you. I am thinking of, and praying for you and the family. Hugs!

Beth said...

Oh Marlou...I'm so, so sorry. I'm sure it meant a lot to her to speak to you before the end. All I can really say is take time to grieve, take comfort in the friends around you and remember all the good times you've had with them all. Big love and cuddles xxx

Frogs-n-Butterflies said...

Marlou,
So sorry to hear of your recent devesating losses! My prayers are with you through this difficult time and always.
XXX~Cheri

Sandy said...

Oh my goodness Marlou, I am so sorry. I imagine nothing I can say will help but here's a big big hug to you and your family at this sad time. you are in my thoughts my friend.

~amy~ said...

Oh ♥Marlou♥, my heart goes out to you...hang in there!!!

Tertia said...

O marlou, there are no words that will make you feel better. I am thinking of you and your family at this time though and my prayers will be with all of you. Isn't it strange how life can be sometimes? Six years ago I lost both my parents as well as both my parents in law within eighteen months. I remember so well how it felt then, but I can assure you that you will get through this eventually. Big hugs to you.

Risa said...

Marlou, I am so sorry for your loss dear! I'm at a loss for words but know that I care. My heart goes out to you and your family.
God Bless!
hugs
Risa:)

Janny said...

Marlou ..what sad news......take good care!
hugs Janny

Clarky J said...

So sorry to hear your sad news. sending you huge (hugs) xxx

debby4000 said...

I'm so sorry Marlou, sending lots of hugs.
luv
Debby

Lea said...

Marlou I just don't have the words to tell you how very sorry I am. My thoughts are with you and your family {{{{hugs}}}}

Lea
xxx

Vanessa said...

Oh Marlou! This is such a tragic time for you - yet another loss :( Sending you some more {{{HUGS}}}. I don't know what else to say.

Vanessa xxx

Donna said...

Dear Marlou, I'm so sorry you have had yet another loss and I so wish I had words that would comfort you. Reading your post I can feel your pain, I'm so sorry your having to go through this hun, take comfort in those lovely memories and the fact that you were able to tell your aunt how much you loved her before she passed. Take care, big hugs, Donna x

Sandie said...

Marlou, I am so sorry to hear of your losses. I understand how you feel as I lost my grandmother, uncle and my dad within 15mths. It was all on my dad's side and there is no one left from that side of the family now.

I hope you can find some comfort in your faith to heal your heart. Give yourself time to grieve and lean on those around you.

[[[hugs]]]
Sandie

Pat said...

Oh i am so sorry Marlou.
My thoughts are with you and your family.
Take care xx
Pat

Danielle said...

Oh Marlou, I cannot begin to tell you how sorry I feel for all of your losses over the past 10 months :(

My dearest sympathies and condolences. BIG HUGS Sweetie!!! Keep smiling :) They are all looking down on you and protecting you :)

Glitter Monkey said...

Oh Marlou my heart is breaking for you and your family and what terrible grief you have had to endure this year. You are still in my thoughts. Lol Lynn ♥

Flossie's Follies said...

I am so sorry for your loss, please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Latisha said...

Oh Marlou! I'm so sorry to hear about your Dad and Aunt. Focus on the happy memories you have, it will help you when you are having a low point.
big hugs
Latisha

Connie said...

I am so sorry for your loss. Life has a way of arranging things for reasons we have yet to know. It does sound like she was a true pal and so much fun to go stamping all over with you.
I think I would just be happy that I had someone to share my hobbies with and other doors do open up for us, we just don't know when.
My prayers and sympathy to you at this time.

Connie said...

I am so sorry for your loss. Life has a way of arranging things for reasons we have yet to know. It does sound like she was a true pal and so much fun to go stamping all over with you.
I think I would just be happy that I had someone to share my hobbies with and other doors do open up for us, we just don't know when.
My prayers and sympathy to you at this time.

Anneke said...

dear marlou
how very sad to hear al the losts you have had this last month.
i can imagine the pain you must feel right now,and i will give you my condoleances for these terrible losts.
i will think of you and wish you the strenght to continue and that you will pick up the pieces day by day.
take care my friend and hugs from ann

Krafty Kate said...

Hi Marlou, I am sorry to hear of yet more sad news. I will be thinking about you and your family, and remember you in my prayers
God Bless
Kate

Ann said...

Oh, Marlou, my heart goes out to you! Sending hugs and prayers across the miles...

Marna said...

I'm so sorry for your lost!
Be strong!
Hugs,
Marna

Kathy said...

Marlou
Its been a while since I popped in to visit your blog, and I'm so sorry to read that you've had so many sadnesses to cope with recently. My thoughts are with you and I hope you will find comfort and peace amid all the sorrow

leann said...

Oh Marlou - biggest hugs for you sweetheart x

Glee said...

My sweet, sweet Marlou, bless your heart. I can't help my tears that are flowing for you....take care, my Friend and know that you are in my thoughts.

Love, Glee

Dawny P said...

Oh Marlou, I am so very sorry chick. I haven't been blog hopping for ages but then I saw this and had to stop by. It's all so soon after your beloved dad isn't it. My thoughts are with you, and you will be in my prayers sweet girl. You take care of yourself and the sun will shine again for you soon. With all my love, Dawny xxxx

imelda truesdale said...

Dear Marlou,words cannot express how sad i feel for you and your family .I just wanted you to know i will be keeping you all in my prayers. lots of love imelda

Gail said...

How very sad, our thoughts are with you.It was lovely that you got to speak to your aunt before she died, I'm sure that would have meant the world to her.

LuLu said...

Marlou, so very sorry to hear that you have to suffer more heartache. My thoughts & prayers are with you & your family.

Take care,

Lou
x